I'm in love!

     I had someone tell me how they loved their spouse, their spouse was the only one they felt safe having sex with, that they were living separate because there were things about each other they didn't do so well living with. They love one another but are not "in love" with one another.
     This being in love has been a theme for me the past few days and I remembered my lessons on who and what is responsible for our feelings......not limited to emotional feelings like anger, fear, happiness, but also feelings that are more experienced as sensations. Synchronistically, someone else mentioned not being in love and this is what I answered:
    I was given to reflect on this "in love" thing the past few days. If it be true that all our feelings are ours and no one else is responsible for them.....if others can only be participants in circumstances that serve as facilitators in triggering feelings in us, our expansion in these feelings/dimensions/facets of us being embodied.....well, then "in love" is one of them and I can summon it in any given moment, embody it perpetually if something else I'm embodying doesn't diminish it....and so I did....I summoned the feeling of being "in love" having a smoke with my morning coffee. In this way, I experience being in love every day. If I choose to embody it in another's presence and allow them to share in it's eminence from within me, it triggers theirs and causes it to spread, increase among those who no longer project to infect more and more of our shared reality. We could invite oneanother without attachment, condition, dependency, expectation to be "in love" with(alongside) us..."today, will you be in love with me?"

I'm in love with you already!