5 monkeys-Why we believe what we believe and do what we do

I had figured out the only reason the belief we have to earn our keep, be of service, be found worthy and work for others is because our forefathers were indentured servants and slaves who never had time to rest enough to come out of survival mode. We call love what we call because we are love and know it but were told to be an expression of love we must do as we are told to do: "love behaves in such and such a way". We parent as we parent because we were told or shown: "this is how one parents". Every aspect of our lives is governed by a past long forgotten. No woman wants to be an empowered woman/cunt because to be such was to be burned at the stake when inquisitors came....commissioned by men threatened by the existence of holy women. Fear of self-determination was ingrained this way, fear of knowing who I am. Fear of being different while proclaiming to be different and finding a clique to fit into. Believing there is safety in numbers. Every belief...learned from those who have been traumatized by those who have been traumatized by those who have been traumatized........
   Summed up nicely by the experiment of five monkeys:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qd22AWCWjwM