The little children who hit

    So many of the adults in the world are like the little that walk up to people and hit them. When children get their momentum going by being happy and responding by expressing happy, they express it freely. In a home environment where excited to see you is hugs and kisses and laughing and singing and dancing. They see strangers whose presence triggers happy and they hug them. I am being blessed to raise two of such children.
    Children raised in a home where misery is predominant run up to their parents excitedly and are pushed away with "get off me!" and "no one wants to hear it!". They get hurt by this and don't like the feeling of hurt so they get angry or whiny and angry or whiny gets the parents to do what the child is wanting. This process becomes habit and progresses so quickly so that happy excited never even registers. They experience a straight shot to anger or whiny when they meet people. They grow up to be the men who see a woman playing delightfully in a puddle and shout abruptly with criticism; "Shouldn't you be wearing shoes?". They are the women who meet a man and tell them their whole sob story.
     Intensive re-program can change this if it is wanted. I have expressed and addressed nearly every aspect and nuance of our abusive environments in volumes of writing. If interested in pursuing them, I'm sure it can be arranged for you to browse through my files and make a book out of them. I've explored all aspects of abuse and victimization: spiritual, physical, emotional, psychological (children in abusive environments have speech 'impediments' because they turn a deaf ear to adults and siblings who constantly insult their intelligence, it's a sort of 'energetic ducking'), and physiological. Could probably get several books out of it.
   I'm over it.