They are the whole world to you

My wholeness is only a blip on his radar, something he wanted to be fully present for and until he could be, he had to tend to that which burned up his phone constantly, relentlessly.......he calls it his abuser but I now see it is his greatest lover..... and that is perfectly OK with me because it showed me what I need.


The following came across my fb news feed in August, 2015:
Lalit Arora with Sally Profota Scarborough and 2 others
2 hrs ·
Perfect explanation👏
Husband: I love you
Wife: I love you too, infact I love you so much I will fight the whole world for you
Husband: but you fight with me the most
Wife: because you are the whole world to me😳😂😂

add to that the concept that what we manifest in the outer world is reflection of our inner world. What we fight is that which is embodying our own inner "demons"...we are wrestling with ourselves when we are wrestling with someone else. They truly are your whole world. If your inner demons are your priority, then so is your own personal development. That's a good thing. They wouldn't have your attention if they weren't resonating....
  I want to be "the whole world" of someone whose inner world I am embodying. The one they can't ignore. The one they always respond to immediately. I want to be the most provoking, blood rising thing they could be doing. And why shouldn't I be? I am present in all I do, un-distracted, fully devoted to engaging, knowing, understanding, appreciating. I do believe I am ready to have that mirror turned on me..