Sex before Eve

   Sex was not the original sin and it is easy to prove. When life on earth was ready, God said "be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth....". That is three times the emphasis was on "have sex", "make babies".  If anything, the original sin could very well have been that Adam and Eve did not have sex because Eve, a virgin, was a bit afraid of it.
   "At last! bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh!", a woman Adam could relate to. Adam was relieved. Why? What was of a bother that was not "bone of his bone, flesh of his flesh"? Could it be one or more of the other women created by the sons and daughters(morning stars)/gods(and goddesses) of God? If the story of Lilith is true, Adam was relieved upon meeting Eve because his experience with this/these more experienced woman/women was not making him happy.
   The fruits of the spirit are love, peace, joy, long-suffering, etc. :qualities a person has. The fruit of evil is covetousness, lying, anger, fear, guilt, shame, etc. Which fruit of the tree of good and evil did Eve eat of and pass on to Adam? "Why are you hiding?", "We are naked.", "who told you that you are naked?", he made them clothing: obviously, the fruit is shame in reference to their bodies. Satan made fun of Eve and made her fear sex, afraid to "know" Adam's body. We know they didn't start making and having babies until after they left the garden of Eden. After that, Adam "knew" Eve and Eve gave birth. They finally  had sex.
   Sex is not limited to marriage to be approved by God if Adam was having sex with the one or more other women before Eve. When questioned about marriage, the one called Jesus answered by referring to the two being one flesh, yoked together. They weren't married. There was no agreement or legal arrangement, witnesses or contracts. The yoking is a telepathic and empathic connection where you feel the other's emotions and physical sensations. I know because I have experienced it. I had but to project a feeling I was trying trying to explain and the man I was yoked to would supply exactly the right word lost on the tip of my tongue, as they say.  He knew the exact moment I would wake up and get online though he lived hundreds of miles away. I knew what he was thinking and feeling. But we were in no way  obligated to stay together, get married or anything of that nature. In fact, it is my experience that God asked me to be with another in a non-yoked relationship for very specific reasons I won't get into. Adam obviously wasn't with Lilith until death did them part.
   The only commands God had concerning marriage was not to covet another's wife. If an agreement was made, no one had any bussiness breaking it. "make a vow, pay a vow". That is why the apostles griped it would be better not to marry. Marriage is a man-made institution based on fear. Men want to posses things, like women, and can be prone to jealousy. Women are prone to insecurity about their position, especially when pregnant. It can, of course be the other way around, one or the other, either/or. I am not gender prejudiced and really don't care. Stereotypes aren't my thing, but overall, majorities, do exist. Anyways, point being, even though it was a man-made institution, the vow is made before God. Even if not made before God, you have given your word and to break it makes you a liar. Some covenants we are not allowed to make but do without realizing it. For example, those of us not to be married nor given in marriage, brainwashed by society, believe we could, should, might even have to marry. God has the right to cancel or disallow the vow just as a husband or father was allowed to according to Jewish Law. God will undermine it until we figure it out, learn to hear Him and listen over what people tell us he said and we should do. No one is obligated to marry, there only exist those who aren't allowed to. Everyone else can choose to marry or not. Everyone is free to have sex with whomever they want if unmarried or not have sex at all, so long as the choice is made appropriately. There are definately circumstances where either choice would be innapropriate. There is a time and season for everything, including sex and marriage, abstinance and not being married. Immorality is simply sex that is immoral/unethical/innapropriate.
    It is fear of what we are doing as being bad that brings the host of diseases and dysfunction to sexuality. Shame, self-judgement, rebelliousness, guilt, etc. about sex are the problem and can cause sexual dysfunctions, reproductive difficulties, and disease of the sex organs even in married couples. Often sex is more an expression of hatred and oppression, a battle between two people more than it is ever an expression of love. To have sex with a woman was referred to as "humbling" her: lay her down and pound on her. In self-defense, a woman can use it to manipulate to get what she fears she will not otherwise receive. She may be aggressive sexually just to prove she can't be "broken" or "tamed" or "humbled". She is trying to feel in control of things to fight an insecurity. All of it being dysfunctional and diseased.
   On the other hand, if we are free of guilt, fear and shame concerning sex and are simply engaging in it as an expression of joy and appreciation, there is not a damn thing wrong with it. It's fun, nourishing to the mind, body, soul, spirit. It is good for you. It is energizing, relaxing, refreshing. It is healing. And it's really nice to do outside ;) Did I say that? lol You didn't hear it from me. I am just an all-natural hippie who doesn't smoke weed but forgets herself anyways. heehee