Tuesday, June 20, 2023

Rectifying Myself to Love

      One of the most challenging things we face, pretty much impossibly in youth, is knowing that love is there, feeling it, sensing it and yet the listener doesn't understand us, a thing we're doing, a thing we're saying. We get so focused on the frustration of not being understood (perceiving that we are being prevented from sharing our full self, which is love) that we cease to feel, know, sense love at all. 

     So it is that we get stuck in the belief that no one understands us. We then believe that's because we aren't good/smart/evolved enough to understand or that they are the lesser ones. We fail to see the forest for the trees and separate ourselves, isolate ourselves from everyone even in close relationships. 

     I released myself from that this morning and as I did, the sense that not only will I be at peace and able to sense/share love with those who don't get a word I am saying, but that someone who DOES understand can now come in.

    Unconditional love 💝

It came in during mischievous play with my dogs. They're so good for me 🤗

And the above is why we are told no one needs to understand us other than us😁

As a side note; just because they don't respond how we want/expect them to (we don't even respond to things the way we want or expect ourselves to) it does not mean they don't love or understand. They can understand the frustration, even if they can't understand what we're trying to explain. Maybe they need it explained in a different way (which denotes no inferiority on either part) or they want/need to discover it for themselves or even at a later date. We can just love and move along to the next topic. 

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