The party was never intended to end & transparency

     

     I woke from a dream where I was instructing myself about life in general, represented by different aspects having a discussion among themselves. The aspect I was observing from piped up that the party wasn't supposed to end. I opened my eyes with a song "this is the party that never ends" running through my head to the tune of "This is the song that doesn't end...."https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ffL573XI50   That doesn't mean a life long drinking and dancing binge type thing. It means the feeling better and feeling better, the exploring and expanding that Abraham as channeled through Esther Hicks says we never get done. I had started the quiet in which we do the inner aligning with our upgrades, so to speak. I guess the message in this dream time experience is; we don't have to stop everything and let it be all consuming if we don't want to. The realignment is going to happen. The upgrade makes it unavoidable.
   Not long after that, a thought train came about; In 3D we met fear. The contrasting element got out of control. So? Time to forgive ourselves and move on. Dethrone fear as prom king.
    It keeps coming up for me; the new-agey types' use of the word transparency for the narcissistic stripping their partners of all boundaries as requirement for healthy relationshipping and feelings of safety.  If we were supposed to be transparent, we'd be sea butterflies. Healthy relationships require authenticity. Healthy boundaries are a part of it. "Wombing" is a sacred aspect of creation and just like film needing a dark room to develop in; certain things we're experiencing need to be off limits. So; maybe now that I've gotten that out of my head, maybe it'll stop rising up in me.