My son's unloading moment reminds me of my childhood. We are soooo fully present in every moment, soooo authentic and present with our feelings and emotions. Every moment is all that exists. Nothing else ever has nor will ever exist. That's when the "always", the "never" come in. We can only access experiences in alignment with that moment's lament. Our memories can only access memories that validate it. They are then the only moments to ever have or ever will exist. That's where hopelessness comes in. "I just want to break something!", "Nobody loves me!".
One can only validate the feeling of it all, if one wants to be honest. It is not wrong to do so. That IS how it feels.
With the validation comes acceptence. With acceptence, the release of resistance. With the release of resistance, different memories of different experiences can come in. Different potentials can be imagined. A different future then exists. In it's existence, it becomes manifested.
We just need to sit with them as they sit with it.
We need to be fully present to truly sit with them.
Our presence is invaluable; to be protected, respected and cherished. It is our contribution to the world.
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